Struggle heroes’ wives not sufficiently recognised
TANNIE Ilse Naudé, the recently departed wife of late Struggle cleric Dr Beyers Naudé, has gone to a much deserved rest after a wonderful, long life. Tannie Ilse provided superb companionship and able support to Oom Bey.
We wonder if we will ever again see the likes of such a sterling generation of black and white SA patriots.
Many of us feel there is often insufficient recognition and acknowledgment of great SA Struggle icons’ spouses.
Numerous heroes have received bountiful praise and international accolades for their selfless service to the nation. But often their wives’ supportive contribution largely goes under the radar. It is doubtful if so many SA heroes would have scaled the same great heights without the unflinching loving support of their “better halves”.
I think of Ellen Smith, the wife of another ex-dutch Reformed Church (NGK) dominee, Dr Nico Smith, who bravely stood full square behind her husband when he resigned from the NGK and went to reside in the township of Mamelodi to minister to that community.
Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu has often mentioned his gratitude for the support of his beloved Leah, and the Reverend Alan Boesak has similar rich praise for the influence of his wife Elna on his life.
Of course, many wives achieved almost equal recognition for their personal contributions to the freedom Struggle or service to the community.
Winnie Madikizela-mandela and Ma Albertina Sisulu stand out as sterling examples of women who endured tremendous hardship after the imprisonment of their famous husbands, but also attained high office and achievements in ANC structures.
Generally, though, the spouses go largely unrecognised.
My wife and I feel that greater consideration should be given to recognise marriage partners’ massive contributions. There often seems to be a huge imbalance in the government’s recognition of actual greatness.
Dr Imtiaz Sooliman, the founder of Gift of the Givers (one of the most amazing charities on the planet), was fittingly honoured a few years ago when President Jacob Zuma bestowed the Order of the Baobab in Silver on this amazing man.
Wouldn’t it have been wonderful if his co-founder wife had stood beside him at the ceremony to jointly receive the award?
But these are mere earthly considerations.
I have no doubt there is a special place reserved in heaven for Ilse Naudé right next to her beloved Beyers.
Tembisa, Kempton Park