True Love - - SEX -

To sleep with him or not, that is the ques­tion! Three women share their pre-sex deal­break­ers:

Zodwa Sime­lane, 37, Teacher

“I once asked him how he feels about oral sex and his re­sponse was a shock­ing, ‘I love a woman who knows how to give good head but I wouldn’t go down on any woman — my mouth is too clean to be do­ing that.’ I knew in­stantly he was a jerk. How could he ex­pect some­one to do some­thing he wasn’t pre­pared to? Be­ing with a self­ish per­son is a waste of time be­cause you’ll al­ways be frus­trated.”

Natasha Mn­guni, 27, Nurse

“Guy X wanted me to move in with him a month into our re­la­tion­ship. Who gets that se­ri­ous with­out giv­ing them­selves time to know you? I did some dig­ging on him and dis­cov­ered he was the big­gest scam­mer. A man who loves you would have been kind and pa­tient enough to ac­quaint them­selves with their new part­ner in­stead of talk­ing mar­riage and ba­bies on the first date!”

Philisiwe Moyo, 33, Lawyer

“If some­one re­fuses to re­spect your bound­aries in the early stages, then please show them the door! I had told him be­fore­hand that I didn’t like anal sex, and he kept try­ing to con­vince me oth­er­wise. I stood up, got dressed and left. That was the last time I ever heard of him.”

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