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True Story – Zandile Mnisi LaMvuleni

Zandile Mnisi LaMvuleni, 29, shares how she survived a coma after pre-eclampsia escalated during her pregnancy, endangerin­g hers and her unborn baby’s lives

- By SISONKE LABASE

y partner and I planned our baby. It was no surprise when I found out I was pregnant – we were very excited. I was a happy mom to-be and planned everything thoroughly – I even resigned from my job as a claims consultant at a leading insurance company to prepare for the baby’s arrival. I also went back to school, and registered for a law degree through Unisa. I lived at home with my family, so I had a great support structure in place. My pregnancy was perfectly fine. I had done everything by the book –I visited the doctor regularly, and read lots of pregnancy magazines and books. I was clued up on all possible complicati­ons, but thought they would never happen to me. I had a really great pregnancy, or so I thought...

Everything changed when I went to the clinic for my 30-week check-up. I did a Doppler scan and various other tests. The nurse thought I had a poor bioscope, and detected protein in my urine. My liver enzymes and blood pressure were also too high. I had gained weight rapidly and had severe oedema, so she referred me to a hospital for further checks, but didn’t say much to alarm me. There were clear red flags to warn us of what lay ahead, but still, I wasn’t diagnosed with anything severe. Just to be sure, I sought a second opinion from a private doctor the next day. I didn’t tell him about the first tests I’d done at the clinic. He actually thought my blood pressure was okay because it was in line with that of a woman in her third trimester. I left his practice feeling calmer because he hadn’t picked up anything that was alarming. My spirits were high – I even had a maternity shoot to look forward to that week.

What I didn’t know was that I had pre-eclampsia. After writing one of my June exams, something told me to go to the hospital for a check-up. That evening in June 2017 changed my life. The pre-eclampsia had escalated to eclampsia before I even got to the hospital. I collapsed and immediatel­y fell into a coma. Fortunatel­y, my mother and brother were with me so they called an ambulance as they feared I wouldn’t make it if they drove me there themselves. The doctors were worried and told my family that I might not make it because my pulse was very thready, and I was unresponsi­ve to stimuli. Luckily, when my family took me to the hospital, they brought my clinic bag with, which had my clinic card and referral letter to a hospital. That allowed the doctors to make a more informed decision, which is how I was diagnosed with eclampsia. They described the seriousnes­s of my condition to my mother, and explained how fatal it could be. Eclampsia can occur anytime after 20 weeks in pregnancy and, unfortunat­ely, it can’t be prevented. My mom had to sign a consent form to allow the doctors to perform an emergency C-section to save my baby. They first had to lower my blood pressure so they could operate. My son was delivered at seven months, weighing in at approximat­ely 1,7 kg. We were then rushed to the ICU to be monitored. Fortunatel­y, my son was strong, as small as he was, and didn’t have major complicati­ons. He just suffered minor respirator­y distress.

I regained consciousn­ess the next day, but I had short-term memory loss. My mom had to fill in the blanks. I had missed everything, including my son’s birth, which really hurt me. I didn’t know where I was or that I had already given birth. I’d start crying every time I was reminded of what had happened. I felt immense guilt because I was not able to deliver my baby the way my partner and I had planned. I really couldn’t connect the dots – the one day I was happy, looking forward to my maternity shoot, and the next, I was hospitalis­ed. I felt like I had failed my son, like I wasn’t a worthy mom because I couldn’t carry him to full term. I thought of all the conditions I had read about, and just how many things could go wrong with a preterm baby. I knew my son could die during this fragile period, or have behavioura­l issues later in life. I had done my absolute best to make sure my pregnancy was normal and

Eclampsia can occur anytime after 20 weeks in pregnancy and, unfortunat­ely, it can’t be prevented.

enjoyable, but it didn’t happen that way.

I only got to bond with my son two weeks later, just before we were discharged. I struggled to breastfeed him because I was weak. The doctors were also on high alert as I wasn’t out of the woods yet – postpartum doesn’t mean the end of pre-eclampsia. They had to make sure my protein and blood pressure levels were under control before I could leave the hospital.

We were given clearance after my son had gained enough weight to leave and my recovery had progressed at a satisfacto­ry pace. During this time, my family was amazing. Their support saved me from depression, and it allowed me to overcome the uphill battle that lay ahead. I was constantly tired and high on various types of medication, which were meant to reverse my symptoms. The first six months were a struggle, but I found my rhythm and fell into a normal routine. Technicall­y, my son and I were still outpatient­s, so we had to go to the hospital to monitor his developmen­t and my recovery. My son also had to go to the pediatrici­an for a year to ensure he reached his milestones.

I’m grateful to be alive, considerin­g the number of odds that were stacked against my son and I. If I had had a stroke, the ending would be different. My family and the medical practition­ers at Dr George Mukhari Academic Hospital, in Ga-Rankuwa, pulled me through. I know there is a God because of them. Dying is so easy, but here I am, alive and thriving. I’m raising a joyful son who’s reaching every milestone in his young life. Being Khaya’s mom is a blessing I will never take for granted.”

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