Weekend Argus (Saturday Edition)

SA men prefer curvy lovers

- KARISHMA DIPA karishma.dipa@inl.co.za

SOUTH AFRICAN men are among scores of males in cities around the world who seem to prefer their mistresses to be curvy.

These men who stray from their committed relationsh­ips also prefer their lovers to have longer hair and would apparently choose adventurou­sness over maturity.

This was according to a recent survey which aimed to discover exactly which qualities and attributes made a woman the perfect mistress.

Overall, it found that the majority of men who took part in the study ranked a woman’s physical appearance over intelligen­ce.

The study was conducted by Victoria Milan, an online dating network for married and attached people who wanted to cheat.

The findings were based on mined data from thousands of Victoria Milan members from 22 countries including South Africa, Australia, Belgium, Brazil, Germany, France, Argentina, Spain, the Netherland­s, Greece, the UK and the US.

The research conducted by the online dating network regarding the ideal mistress was originally done back in 2015 when the results showed that slim women topped the list.

The same study was done by Victoria Milan late last year and the updated poll revealed a completely different type of mistress.

During the initial study, 40.2% of 4 427 men registered on victoriami­lan. com chose slim women over curvy (38.6%) to have an affair with.

Three years later, however, these men’s physical preference­s have changed: now 40.8% of these other 4 803 participan­ts prefer curvaceous mistresses over 35.2% who keep choosing slim lovers.

According to the men who took part in the poll, the perfect mistress also has long hair and this attribute has increased in importance over these past years: from 41.2% to 42.3%.

Victoria Milan chief executive and founder Sigurd Vedal explained that they repeated the study as preference­s change.

“We wanted to repeat this survey because physical stereotype­s have changed a lot over the past years.”

“Consequent­ly, these results show exactly how men’s physical preference­s are now different and all types of women are represente­d in the survey.”

The results of both studies also revealed that physical appearance­s are more important than personalit­y for men who seek an extramarit­al affair.

In 2015, 67.4% chose appearance over personalit­y (29.6%), while in 2018 physical looks were more important for 70.1% of unfaithful men.

For just 26.9% of the participan­ts, personalit­y is more important than physical appearance.

According to 28.3% of the men polled in 2018, a woman who is elegant and stylish is preferred, while in the previous survey this factor was only important for 11.4% of men seeking an affair.

The most recent results of the survey also showed that just 5.6% of the men surveyed preferred their mistresses to be mature but that a sense of humour was among one of the top traits they looked for in a lover, as 67.6% were looking for a funny lover.

These men’s physical preference­s have changed: 40.8% prefer curvaceous mistresses

Sigurd Vedal

Victoria Milan chief executive

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