“My part­ner and I are in­ter­ested in try­ing anal sex. Are there toys that will help me get used to the idea and feel­ing?”

Women's Health (South Africa) - - OUR VERDICT -

AN­SWER

“It ’s nat­u­ral to won­der what anal sex is like and of­ten an ac­ci­den­tal touch of the anal area brings on such an in­tense or­gasm that you’re left won­der­ing i f you’ve been ne­glect­ing this sweet spot for too long. Anal sex is cer­tainly not for ev­ery­one, but with the right at­ti­tude and a lit­tle help, it can be one of the most ad­ven­tur­ous, thrilling and in­ti­mate ex­pe­ri­ences you and your part­ner can share. Start­ing off slowly is key, so be­fore you go full tilt into anal pen­e­tra­tion, why not start with a small plug that’s de­signed to stim­u­late your anal nerves and am­plify your or­gasms (try the Dio­gol Anni Jew­elled Anal Plug, R829, De­sir. co. za). By ap­ply­ing a gen­er­ous amount of anal l ubri­cant (most con­tain a unique for­mula de­signed to pro­vide slight de­sen­si­ti­sa­tion to the area), you can gen­tly insert the anal plug. And don’t worry about it sud­denly dis­ap­pear­ing – with the wide stop­per at the base, it will stay put in a safe position. Wear­ing this plug dur­ing sex not only al­lows you to get used to the sen­sa­tion of the in­tense anal stim­u­la­tion, it also al­lows you to ex­pe­ri­ence far stronger or­gasms, thanks to the sen­sory over­load of an en­tirely dif­fer­ent set of nerve struc­tures. Once you are used to the sen­sa­tion of anal stim­u­la­tion, you can then choose to progress to pen­e­tra­tive anal sex. Re­mem­ber to start slowly, use a con­dom, ap­ply plenty of l ubri­cant and never go straight from anal pen­e­tra­tion to vagi­nal – the spread of faecal bac­te­ria can bring on a host of nasty in­fec­tions, which you need to avoid. Breathe, don’t tense up and most im­por­tantly com­mu­ni­cate with your part­ner – i f you are hav­ing any neg­a­tive ex­pe­ri­ences or feel­ings to­wards it , don’t do it!” – Désir. co. za ex­perts

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