BE PREPARED FOR THESE ODDITIES, WHICH ARE ACTUALLY QUITE NORMAL

Most toddlers still need a night nappy for a year or even two after they are free of nappies during the day. When is the right time to drop the night nappy? Keep a beady eye on it. If you notice for a whole week that he wakes up dry, you can give it a go. Be sure to take him to the toilet just before bedtime though to increase the chances of a dry night. Limit liquids from later afternoon. Invest in some waterproof mattress protectors. A nightlight is a good idea; it might help him go to the bathroom by himself at night.

It is very common for boys to be ready later than girls and for the process to take longer for boys. Boys also need a bit of male guidance. Initially they can sit and pee, but Dad (or any trusted friend or relative) can show them how to stand when he judges they’re ready. Boys also take longer to be dry at night. Many children manage to control their bladder just fine, but controlling a number two is a bigger challenge for the body. So don’t worry if it is going fine with peeing in the potty, but not yet pooing. It is very typical. Accidents happen, and sometimes potty training can feel like two steps forward, one step back. If you really feel things are regressing, give yourselves a day or two off, and then begin trying again. Never ever make your child feel bad about regressing. At some point, your child needs to move from potty to toilet. It can be scary! Many are scared of the splash, the noisy flushing and feeling unstable, sitting so high! Sit with him and hold his hand, and flush once he has left the room. You can teach basic hygiene at the same time as the potty lessons start. Wipe from front to back. Wash hands after every session. Close the lid before you flush.