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Protecting children from potential harm resulting from social media and internet use should be a priority for every parent or guardian.

This is the advice of Richards Bay SAPS who is encouraging parents talk to their children about avoiding strangers, not revealing personal information, and general internet safety.

While many children may seem comfortable with technology, they are still learning and may not be prepared to spot the risks of being constantly connected - especially when it comes to social media.

By setting up a few rules, children can be kept safe. Here are some steps parents can take to protect children online.

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• Stay informed of the latest websites and social media.

• Insist on knowing your child’s passwords and common acronyms children use online and in text messages.

• Spend time online with your child, whether at home, at the library or at a computer centre in your community.

• Move your child’s computer into a family room. In fact, your child should use a shared family computer. This tends to limit visiting potentially dangerous chat rooms and social networking websites.

• Talk to your child about the dangers of the internet. Let them know that it is possible to meet predators online. Let them know that if they are harassed they must contact you immediately.

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• Your Internet Service Provider (ISP). The best place to start is with the company that provides you with connectivity.

• Your local computer store where you can buy blocking and filtering software.

• Web browsers can also enforce parental control systems.

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Most of the acronyms listed below have sexual meanings and motives behind them and may be used by predators. There are various websites that provide updated lists which you should take note of:

GNOC - Get Naked on Cam

TDTM - Talk Dirty to Me

NIFOC - Naked in Front of Computer PAW - Parents are Watching

PIR - Parent in Room

POS - Parent over Shoulder

CD9/Code 9 - Parent/Adult around ASL(R P) - Age Sex Location

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(L)MIRL - (Let us) Meet in Real Life MOS - Mom over Shoulder

P911 - Parent Emergency

PRON - Porn

S2R - Send to Receive (pictures)

FYEO – For Your Eyes Only