Daily Mirror (Sri Lanka)

STARS SAY WHETHER YOU WILL DEFY CONVENTION

Marriage to a foreigner or someone outside your community

- By A.S. Fernando

Alarge majority of people in our country still seem to believe in the convention­al marriage judging by the contents of numerous marriage proposals advertised in the national weeklies these days.

PARENTS CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER

In most of these cases, it is the parents who seek a partner for their son or daughter and they invariably make it a point to mention their ethnicity, religion and caste indicating preference for a bride or a bridegroom from the same community.

PARENTAL INITIATIVE TAKES A BACK SEAT

However, there is a growing trend among parents to allow leeway for their children to marry a partner of their choice irrespecti­ve of ethnic, religious or caste compatibil­ity. Very often, nowadays young men and women meet and fall in love and later seek parental consent to tie the knot. While, the inter-caste and interracia­l marriages are on the increase now, yet another type of marriage has entered the equation: either a love relationsh­ip or marriage with a foreigner.

FOREIGNERS TURNING BRIDEGROOM­S

The local- foreigner relationsh­ips have begun to increase of late with more and more foreign nationals visiting the country as tourists, investors, and resource personnel on foreign-funded developmen­t projects. Another factor contributi­ng to the increase of this type of marriage is more and more Sri Lankans securing employment in Mid-east and certain developed countries mostly in the West.

Our present purpose is to discuss the Astrologic­al factors that lead to a local marrying a foreigner throwing all convention­s to the four winds.

RAHU’S ROLE IN UNCONVENTI­ONAL MARRIAGES

Vedic Astrologer­s credit Rahu, the shadow planet with causing unconventi­onal marriages, those with foreigners in particular.

Rahu, in fact, is believed to be playing an important role connecting a native with everything foreign. Rahu also plays a major role in timing the unconventi­onal marriages. For instance, a marriage with a foreigner would take place either in the major Dasa period of Rahu or in his sub-dasa period in the major Dasa lord of the 7th House.

PLANETARY POSITIONS SIGNIFYING AN UNCONVENTI­ONAL MARRIAGE

Given below are a few planetary positions that lead to marriage with a foreigner.

„The lord of the 7th house in the 12th House or vice versa points to a marriage with a foreigner and taking up residence abroad. „ The lord of the 12th House posited in the 4th House while being aspected by Venus or the lord of the 7th House signifies marriage with a foreigner and living abroad. „The lord of the 12th house in the 7th House with the lord of the 4th House indicates marrying a foreigner.

„Rahu occupying either the 12th House or the 6th House in the Rashi, Sapthamsa and Navamsa charts would cause the native to marry a foreigner.

„The 12th lord either from the Moon or the Lagna placed in the asterism (Nakshatra) of Rahu would lead to marrying a foreigner.

„Venus, either posited with or aspected by Rahu in the 2nd or the 12th position to each other in the Navamsa chart indicates marriage with a foreigner.

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