AUTHORITIES BOAST OF MAJOR PLANS WHILE THE CLOCK IS TICKING..
As many as 31 underaged boys and girls living in unsafe environments were identified during a survey conducted in the Arachchikattuwa Grama Niladhari division in the Puttalam District. The reasons were manifold. When mothers leave for foreign employment, girls are left with their fathers and elder brothers. Orphaned children live with their relatives and some children live by themselves even though their parents are around. To add to the problem, many of these children were not schooling as well. Such unsafe environments set the precedent for the rise in incidents of child abuse, harassment and rape. This is why in most instances the perpetrator is known to the victim. On a more worrying note, as many as 20,000 odd cases relating to child sexual abuse have piled up at the Attorney General’s Department over a decade while as many as 5292 cases of child sexual abuse have been reported during the first six months of 2020. Policy level decisions, stringent punishments for perpetrators, streamlining the relevant institutions and their objectives are important at this critical hour. In such a backdrop, whether it is apt to have islandwide celebrations in view of World Children’s Day, certainly remains a question.
Hence the Daily Mirror takes a look at why incidents tend to escalate in certain areas, how the communication gap between parents and the child contribute to the problem, dearth of psychological care and what the State Ministry could possibly do.
PARENTS HAVE IGNORED CHILDREN’S RIGHT TO PRIVACY
Several forms of child abuse including sexual and physical abuse, exploitation, emotional abuse as well as neglect have been identified. But Buddhini Withana, Senior Technical Advisor – Child Protection at Save the Children observes a weakening in the parent-child-teacher relationship. “Children don’t necessarily think that parents are there for them. If there’s an open line of communication, children would be able to place trust in their parents. Children are looking for response. A lot of children are sexually active from a young age and they don’t know what to do if they conceive. Sex is a natural need and they need to be made aware of safe sex. But since there’s a gap in the education system, children are not educated about sex and sexuality.”
Speaking about lesser spoken aspects of child abuse, she said exploitation also happens where children are either used as sex workers or labourers in the unregulated informal sector. “Even concepts such as home-stays in areas where tourists frequent could add to the damage. In such settings, children can be vulnerable since there are strangers in the house, sometimes it could be foreigners. Neglect is another aspect and it happens because parents are not economically active to support children. There are primary level admissions to schools but the school dropout rates are high. Poor parenting is another reason since parents don’t know to look after their children. Children in the estate sector for example also have limited access to basic services.”
Withana also stressed on the gender dynamic within conventional families. “The mother is not empowered to speak against the father since he’s the breadwinner. So she cannot speak for the child. They cannot live without the father. In most other cases the primary caregiver is absent and children live with extended families. Physical and emotional abuse goes hand in hand but the emotional abuse is not visible. Parents tend to exert power to control children and this results in corporal punishment. This is a dangerous phenomenon as children would therefore grow up to be perpetrators of domestic violence.”
She also said that there’s a fundamental issue of communication between parents and the child. “Parents try to put a lot of control on children. They don’t allow the child to have privacy. If parents have a good line of communication they don’t have to micromanage their children and children will understand that they are given some space. If parents are not trustworthy, children will refrain from relating their experiences. One of the main reasons for this issue is that parents don’t have time now. The concept of family time is slowly dying a natural death. So when they don’t have time, an easy way to control the child is to exert pressure. Parents will not even ask what the child wants.”
However Withana also said that there are parents who want to communicate with their children, but do not know how it could be done. “There’s a desire among parents to learn and this communication gap needs to be bridged. After all, we can’t stop the actions of a perpetrator but we can educate children about it.”
DEARTH OF PSYCHOLOGICAL CARE IN CARE HOMES
Once a victim of rape or abuse has been identified, the courts decide where they will go to next. But before this decision is taken, several other law enforcement authorities have a major role to play. “Once an incident has been reported, the area Police would file a complaint on the victim or the delinquent, and produce it to courts,” said Chandima Sigera, Commissioner, Department of Probation and Child Care Services. “According to Section 17 of the Children and Young Persons Ordinance, the Police should take a Probation Officer when producing a child in courts. The role of the probation officer is to do a social background study of the subject. Here, they will study the family background and decide whether the victim could return home or not.”
“Sometimes abuse takes place at home and in such instances, courts decide not to keep the victim with the family,” she continued. “Therefore they will identify a fit person, maybe a grandparent or a relative who will look after the child and hand the child over through a Fit Person Supervision Order. In certain instances the courts would issue a supervision order to send the child home for rehabilitation under the probation officer’s supervision. If the child cannot be given to anyone at home, the courts would then decide to send the child to a care home as a last resort. There are several care homes and children are sent depending on the severity of the wrongdoing. If it’s a delinquent case, they get referred to a care home, if the child is a suspect, he or she would get referred to a remand home. However, as per the provisions of the Penal Code, the Police has the authority to bail out a child if they have committed a petty crime.”
She further said that while victims or offenders would get referred to government homes, destitute children get referred to voluntary homes. “There are wardens, staff and hired counsellors, but counselling is still at a primary stage. The Ministry has also deployed counsellors to children’s homes, but this area needs more attention.
FROM CABINET TO STATE MINISTRY: A WORRYING STATE OF AFFAIRS
Sri Lanka at one point was identified as one of the Pathfinding Countries that could put an end to violence against children. But things have taken a worrying turn since then. From a Cabinet ministry for Women’s and Children’s Affairs, today subjects such as Women and Child Development, Preschool and Primary Education, School Infrastructure and Services are addressed through a state ministry. “There have been plans after plans but nothing has been implemented so far,” opined eminent child rights lawyer Prof. Savitri Goonesekere.
“There has to be a coordinated approach between the Police, NCPA and other institutions. But now that there’s not even a ministry to talk about these issues, they will only escalate. Why couldn’t the President select either of the two female ministers as the Minister for this subject? This shows that the topic of child abuse, will not be taken at all. Women constitute 51% of the population and children a quarter of it, and but there’s no cabinet ministry to speak on behalf of them.”
STATE MINISTER ASSURES TO PUT THINGS BACK ON TRACK
Millions of rupees have been allocated to uplift services under various departments falling under the purview of the subject ministry. This had been a practice over the years but during the next five years, the State Ministry for Women and Child Development, Pre -school and Primary Education, School infrastructure & Education services has a crucial role to play in establishing a safe environment for these two vulnerable segments. “Having awareness programmes alone won’t suffice if people are not ready to change their attitudes,” opined subject minister Piyal Nishantha de Silva. “There’s a growing problem of underage mothers and we are planning out a mechanism to reintegrate them back into society. Several projects have been underway to do the same but have stopped during successive regimes. We plan to establish such centres in Monaragala, Karapitiya, Anuradhapura and Vavuniya.”
When asked about the dearth of psychological services in care homes, the Minister opined that its better to establish such institutions within close proximity to a hospital or in a hospital itself. “In most instances, support is extended by the private sector and we feel that the government has to do much more. But on the other hand we also have to look at the welfare and well-being of officials employed in these departments. Their job satisfaction also needs to be ensured and therefore I will visit every district and look into these matters. As such, we have to take a concerted effort to put things back on track, as many things have been happening in a haphazard manner.”
The State Minister also called on experts to discuss technical matters at the ground level in order to bring about a holistic approach to solve issues concerning women and children.
(Additional reporting by Lalith Nawarathne, J. A. L. Jayasinghe, Sumanasiri Gunathilaka and Ranjith Rajapaksa)
As many as 20,000 cases relating to child sexual abuse have piled up at the AG’S Department over a decade
A lot of children are sexually active from a young age and they don’t know what to do if they conceive
There are several care homes and children are sent depending on the severity of the wrongdoing