Fond memories of him will remain
Nandana Sunil
Adhihetty, “Thatha“to his children, Lalendra and Budhhima, subsequently to the newest member of the family, Maheeka, and
“Sunil” to me, left us very suddenly almost one and a half years ago. His demise was so unexpected, that we are still trying to come to terms with the abyss he created in our lives. He would have been 73 on November 14, had he lived.
Born to a well-known family in Baddegama, he was very proud of his southern roots. Educated at St. Aloysius College and later at Mahinda College, Galle, he combined excellence in both studies and sports. After completing his higher education at the University of Kelaniya with an Hon. Degree in Economics, he joined NIBM and served the institution for around 35 years, culminating in his appointment as the Acting Director General.
His was a fount of knowledge, being armed with two Masters degrees from two reputed European Universities, and with the gamut of experience he derived from the many short term training programmes abroad, on various management related topics, he dedicated himself to developing and enhancing the managerial capacities of those who were interested in career development. He was an inspiring ‘Guru’ who encouraged all who came to him, to be committed to continuous professional development. His greatest happiness was in seeing his proteges achieve greater heights in their chosen fields.
As a close friend indicated, “Sunil always engaged in intellectual discourse when in company of others and never gossipped.” Another observed, “He never spoke ill of others and always saw the positive side of human beings.” A rare quality in a human being! Yet, he never hesitated to call a spade a spade.
He was a person who was unfailingly caring and kind. His optimism brought hope and sunshine to those in need, making the world a better and happier place. He always said, “Gratitude is a noble quality!” and never forgot to show it to those who helped him in any way, with a phone call, a thank you card, by sending photocopies of useful documents, or a personal visit when possible, with something from the garden. Such was his thoughtfulness!
His love and respect for his parents, as well as his in-laws, was touching. His earnest request to “Treat Aachchi like a VVIP!” is faithfully followed by us to this day. Sunil, you will always be a beacon of hope and a guiding light to the members of your family. You were my “Rock” and I miss you every day!
He was a wonderful human being, with refined and humane qualities. A humble and simple man of integrity, he found contentment in the simple things of life. Beautiful, fond memories of him, his guidance and counsel are the treasures he bequeathed to us, which help us to carry on.
May his journey through samsara be short and joyful! May he attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana!
Saroja