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Tips on how to cope with uncertaint­y

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The only certainty right now is that the uncertaint­y is set to continue. This is unsettling news for everyone. According to Harvard professor Jerry Kagan, the desire to reduce uncertaint­y is one of three primary motives that drives cognitive developmen­t, alongside the urge to decrease hostility and increase mastery.

Personalit­y makes a difference. Nicholas Carleton at the University of Regina in Canada has establishe­d a strong correlatio­n between the inability to tolerate uncertaint­y and neuroticis­m – the tendency to become easily anxious or angry and to experience self-doubt and low mood.

What can help make the current high level of uncertaint­y more bearable?

Do something daily to lower anxiety: Meditate, exercise or contact friends, or anything that helps to invite a sense of calm.

Keep informed, but in a controlled way: decide each morning when you’ll check the news and stick to your plan. Access only reliable sites, and look out for stories of hope and inspiratio­n. Plan small: set three achievable goals a day, such as tidying a room or answering two emails. It doesn’t matter how small the goals, just ensure they’re achievable.

Prioritise attitude: the secret to happiness lies not in what happens to us, but how we react to what happens.

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