Welcome to the UAE, welcome to Dubai
The past month has been busy with schools reopening, people coming back from vacations and many of them coming to the UAE for the first time. Among the new lot, there will be some curious ones, looking to ask questions and learn about their new environment. Some noticeably unnerved; obviously stereotypes.
My advice to those who are new to the country and to those who have been here is to relax, take a deep breath and dive right into the melting pot of cultures. Surround yourself with positive people, and find out for yourself what this place is like. Remember that birds of (the same) a feather flock together. Dubai is a relatively safe city, actually most expats say it is much safer than most big cities. Laws exist to protect those who wish to enjoy a peaceful life, while the same laws can be harsh on those who disturb peace or violate the basic rights.
Just like a speeding ticket, laws are there to punish the act, not the people. What is right in your hometown is right here, too, most of the time. People of over 200 nationalities live in the UAE. Which naturally means, there will be 200 interpretations in the UAE with 200 interpretations of what is ‘right’ or wrong. While the nation as a whole is concerned about your happiness and wellbeing, keep in mind that laws exist to protect all, and not please all. For instance, nobody walks around with a measuring stick to measure the length of that dress; and we don’t patrol the
Forgive and forget, and give each other a chance to show kindness.
malls looking for infractions. Police doesn’t arrest you for greeting your spouse with a kiss on the cheek, or simply holding his or her hand. But anything further than that may be scrutinized. So mind your Ps & Qs and excessive show of affection. I should say a public place is a family space and it is rated G.
UAE authorities don’t come knocking on your door to ask what are you doing or how are you living your life. The UAE is home to many people from all walks of life, cultures and religions. Peaceful coexistence is the objective. So knowing the law, and hanging out with good, positive people, is key to not getting into trouble or breaking the law knowingly or unknowingly. As for those who differ with you, exercise tolerance.
At the Arab culturalist, we offer programmes that answer your questions with a smile. Also, our blog has answers to many questions, and articles written via this column in the Khaleej Times.
Take a deep breath and think positive. Be yourself, mind the safety of others, be respectful to others and treat them the way you would like to be treated yourself, and if you make a mistake just offer sincere apologies. Forgive and forget, and give each other a chance to show kindness. As your host, we will do the same, protect you and support you with laws and rules that are there for the benefit of all.