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Networking is a fast way to secure a good job

- Marty NeMko Marty Nemko is a career and personal coach based in the US. —Psychology Today

Everyone knows that especially in our Covid-tightened job market, networking is key to landing a good job.

Here’s an approach to networking that has worked for a number of my clients. I call it the 10-seed model: Networking is like planting seeds. If you plant ten, if you’re lucky, seven will germinate. Then, additional watering and time is typically required to see if it turns into a lovely plant or a too-flawed one. Here’s how that metaphor translates to networking:

Step 1: List the ten (or more if you’re more motivated) people you’d much like to and have a realistic chance of working for. If it’s an organisati­on rather than a person, use LinkedIn or a Google search to find an appropriat­e person within that organisati­on.

Step 2: Decide whether you’d do better writing or phoning. If writing, try to find their email address by googling their name, the organisati­on, or use LinkedIn’s InMail. (The first month’s membership is free.) That won’t work 100 per cent of the time but should work often enough.

If you’re planning to phone, Google-search to find the organisati­on’s main phone number.

Even if you can find only the organisati­on’s main number, whether you get a live person or automated system, you should often enough be able to get connected, at least to the person’s voicemail. As with the search for an email address, this won’t always work but often enough is good enough.

Step 3: Carefully craft your message. If it’s under 100 words, it suggests inadequate interest, longer than 200 may be asking too much of a stranger’s time. More important, of course, is what you say.

Step 4: Rehearse just a bit because over-rehearsing ensures sterility and because you’re so tied to a script, you increase your chance of getting bolloxed-up. Then replace your script with a few bullet points and make the queries.

To avoid procrastin­ation, make your queries one right after another. Start with your lowestprio­rity person because you’ll get better with each reach-out. And do remember, they’re not expecting a polished speaker. Just speak your truth concisely with moderate enthusiasm and even if your missives are filled with ums and retracemen­ts, when day is done, good things are more likely to happen than if you didn’t make those inquiries.

Also remember, that you’re not asking for a handout, merely a bit of advice, which most people, when not busy, are pleased to give. And as long as you promise yourself that you’ll help when you’re in a position to, the karma is good.

Step 5: Typically, you’ll get a response from only half your reach-outs, and of those who respond, most or all will say they have nothing for you other than perhaps a bit of advice. At that point, ask if s/he wouldn’t mind keeping ears open and if you’re still looking a month from now, if s/he’d mind your circling back.

Step 6: Write an influencin­g note. This is a more potent version of the thank-you letter. Explain how you benefitted from their advice and reiterate your appreciati­on that they’re open to your recontacti­ng them.

Step 7: Do any homework that your contacts suggests. If you’re lucky, one or more of them will suggest that you read something, attend some virtual meeting, whatever. Do it promptly and then email the person to say you’ve done so, and if you found it valuable, say so. That demonstrat­es your being a follow-through person and are appreciati­ve.

I wish that landing a good job was easier than it is. Alas, it’s harder than ever amid the Covid economic contractio­n. But this approach to networking has helped a number of my clients. I hope it helps you.

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