‘I WANT CANCER PATIENTS TO KNOW THAT THERE IS LIFE AFTER THE DISEASE’
▶ Tawam Hospital’s survivorship programme provides vital support to those who have received the dreaded diagnosis
A UAE nurse who survived breast cancer is throwing her support behind a health campaign showing patients there is life after the disease.
Mary Akkermans, 60, was dealt a double blow when she received the diagnosis in 2009 – at the time, her mother in Canada was facing her own cancer fight.
Her mother died from cancer – and her brother-in-law also succumbed to the disease – but she never lost hope and thanks the sterling support she received in the UAE for the fact she is alive today.
Now, she is supporting a new survivorship programme for cancer patients launched at her workplace, Tawam Hospital in Al Ain.
The initiative was set up by staff at the hospital. Cancer survivors are asked to volunteer to share their success stories with patients, and psychologists are on hand to provide vital support from the point of diagnosis, with families fully involved in the process.
“I am alive today because of God and the UAE,” Ms Akkermans said on Thursday during the Emirates Oncology Conference, held in Abu Dhabi.
“I received a biopsy in 2009 and at the same time my mother had a biopsy in Canada that turned out to be positive for lung and secondary in her liver, so I immediately flew to Canada. I wasn’t even in Canada 12 hours when I was told that my biopsy was positive for breast cancer and I needed to come back.”
Because she was a non-resident she could not immediately receive treatment in Canada.
“When my mother was diagnosed, because of the lack of resources and her age, it was decided that she receive only palliative care and that they would not treat her cancer,” she said.
Her mother was 76.
Ms Akkermans flew back to the UAE and immediately had a double mastectomy.
“I had excellent and faster care here and my mother and I made a plan that we would meet for Christmas.”
But her mother died in October of that year, during a period in which her brother-in-law also passed away.
“Within three months, I lost them both. But I told my mother we would meet in heaven.”
Ms Akkermans is unmarried and has no family in the UAE, but she was not short of support in her hour of need.
“The care I received here, I would not have got in Canada or anywhere else in the world.
“But I also had amazing support from friends in the UAE and staff at Tawam Hospital and without that tremendous support, I don’t think I would be here today,” she said.
It is this support that she wants others in the UAE to benefit from.
“I want cancer patients to know that there is life after cancer and you have to let go of your fears,” she said.
“I know that we fear that the cancer will come back, but you can get hit by a bus tomorrow.
“We need more people who have survived to support counselling, to tell patients, look, this is survivable.
“You will have a life, you will dance at your granddaughter’s wedding, you will get married.
“This is treatable and you will have a great life afterwards so don’t worry about it coming back.”
Dr Moza Al Ameri, director of the breast-cancer care centre at Tawam hospital, is one of the driving forces behind the survivorship programme, which is expected to be expanded to hospitals throughout the country over the next five years.
“We are still in the initial phases but I guarantee this programme will be in every hospital in the UAE,” she said.
“This is a passion of mine. “My aunt, who is in her eighties, is a cancer survivor and she said that she didn’t want to waste her life because of cancer.
“She refused to allow cancer to be the end of her life.
“There is always hope and we want our patients to know that.
“Many of them wrongly believe that once they receive a cancer diagnosis then it means that their life is over.”
The hospital receives about 1,300 new cancer patients every year.
Dr Khalid Balaraj, chairman of the Emirates Oncology Conference and head of oncology services at Tawam Hospital, said it was crucial that cancer patients received comprehensive care.
The survivorship programme could take up to five years to be fully implemented and functional, he said.
“The next phase in cancer care is comprehensive care.
“Such a programme is in its initial phases but it is crucial and extremely beneficial to patients.”
I am alive today because of God and the UAE. The care I received, I would not have got anywhere else in the world MARY AKKERMANS Cancer survivor