COME CLEAN ABOUT PAST MISTAKES

1. Be honest and

transparent It is always better to own up than be found out. Tell your partner everything they want to know. Show remorse. Inform them of the extent of the situation so they know what they are dealing with.

2. Work on yourself Be honest with yourself and your partner and figure out why you did it. Do not be ashamed to ask for professional help.

3. Give it time Like any breach of trust, it requires time to rebuild. So be consistent, communicate often and be patient.

4. Discuss your financial

situation regularly Ensure your spouse is involved in financial matters and decisions. Your ability to consistently follow through with what you say you are going to do can make all the difference in your partner’s willingness to trust you again. 5. Work on a plan to resolve the problem together If there is a lot of debt, for example, create a budget and financial plan together and ensure your partner is fully informed.