3 Control your fear, anxiety, every negative feeling… Instead of being miserable, try to bounce back quickly. When I was working for the radio station, I was working on a really big contract once — and lost it at the last minute. I was miserable. For four days, I hated life; I’d come in to late work; I didn’t care. Then I got a small contract and was happy again — but I’d lost those four days. You can always choose how you respond.