Financial dominatrix: ‘Men call me a goddess and let me drain their bank accounts’
Diamond Diva Princess aka Capitalistic Blonde loves to splash the cash – just not her own…
Sifting through the expensive frocks, I catch a glimpse of myself in a full-length mirror, with my bundle of bags, and smile. I’d only been shopping for a matter of minutes but had already managed to spend thousands on Rodeo Drive outfits and sparkling Tiffany and Co jewellery.
I was on a weekend away… but unlike a typical trip, where most people would need to save up for months to afford even the slightest luxury, everything was already bought and paid for.
You see, I’m a financial dominatrix. I drain men’s bank accounts for a living. It’s all legitimate, of course. ‘Findom’, as it’s called to those in the know, is the fetish where a submissive gives gifts and money to a financial dominant.
I’ve been doing it for 18 years, and my role hinges on men fetishising spending their hard-earned money on unattainable women. Like me.
There’s no strings attached, they simply send me money.
I call them my paypigs. I’ve never met any of them in person and never will.
They serve me as a slave would, often spending tens of thousands of pounds a day to keep me in the luxury life that I’m now accustomed to. Some
‘If there’s one thing I’ve learned’ ‘Being blonde really is more fun – and I shouldn’t feel guilty about spending other people’s money.’
spend up to $50 (£35) a minute to speak on the phone with me – but most of the communication is done via email. But life wasn’t always this way…
I grew up on the North-East coast of the USA. Despite my friends’ interest in boys and the latest trainers, I was drawn to a far more mature style. ‘I love the Golden Age of Hollywood,’ I’d tell classmates, much to their bemusement. I was fascinated with fabulous blonde movie stars like Marilyn Monroe, Mae West and Marlene Dietrich.
When I was old enough,
I was offered the chance to model for vintage-style magazines. I loved modelling the pin-up style.
I moved to Los Angeles in 2004, and, thinking long-term, set up a fan club online, before social media had kicked off.
Soon, I had a loyal fanbase and was enjoying the attention they gave. Then, one day, a request from a fan changed everything. ‘I want to be a money slave for you,’ he wrote.
‘ What’s that?’ I asked, confused.
He explained ‘findom’ to me and I was shocked. It sounded amazing, too good to be true even? On the first day, I set up my website, called Money Slaves For Me, and made $100 dollars. ‘For being bitchy and beautiful,’ the paypig wrote. Watching the money ping into my account was a revelation. I’d done nothing for it – in fact, they’d insisted!
I call a financial gift a ‘tribute’. A gift of respect and reverence. But it wasn’t just money. I could also ask for vintage gowns and designer high heels, as well as antiques, trips away… whatever my heart desired.
Despite how quickly I took to the lifestyle, I still had much to learn. I did lots of research and day-by-day, my following grew. The paypigs just couldn’t seem to get enough.
‘I devote my life to serving you,’ they often wrote. It was like a snowball effect…
The more money I made, the more money came in. Working on my website was a big part of becoming successful. It very quickly occurred to me that I was presenting a high-end product – myself – so the prices needed to reflect that.
‘I’m aiming for world-class financial domination,’ I laughed to friends. I set the site up so that tributes have to be at least $100. I once made $20K (£14,130) in just one hour!
There are lots
‘I made $100 dollars for being bitchy and beautiful’
of options on my website which enable my paypigs to send tributes in different ways. They can see videos of me spending their money, which, of course, they have to pay for the pleasure of.
They enjoy watching me splash their cash. The biggest spenders occasionally get a 30-second clip of me shopping or eating caviar, sipping Champagne…
Or I’ll record myself opening gifts. And, although it’s easy for others to assume that I do no work, there’s skill involved.
I pose for pictures and videos, run a website, organise my finances, as well as advertising.
Recently I started running competitions where the top contributors will get a special video. One guy spent $12K (£7,900) on a trip away for me. Those getaways work well.
I’ll explain all the things I want to do, places I want to stay and eat, then watch the money rolling in. I’ll often earn so much that I really struggle to make even a small dent in it!
The most I’ve made is $30K (£21,120) in a day. Overall, I’ve made millions of pounds. Lots of my friends have asked for advice on how to make it as a financial dominatrix – they’ve seen my success!
The two key elements to what I do are being able to work out how far I can push each paypig. This takes a degree of social and psychological insight. The other is the fact that I don’t feel guilty about taking money from these men.
‘’But what if they can’t afford it?’ a friend asked. ‘They come to me, I never approach them,’ I explain. I’m often asked how long I can see myself doing this role. I don’t see it as a job, but a lifestyle. Contrary to what people might think, there’s no expiry date for my role. The fact that I’ve been doing this so long actually means I’m more desirable to these men.
People often mistake my lifestyle for being sexual, and while the paypigs motives might be based around a sexual fetish, my involvement with them is purely business.
I don’t take my clothes off for them or talk dirty. These men want to respect me like they would a goddess. They need me to be totally unattainable – and that’s fine by me!