GAMBLING WITH YOUR FUTURE
‘I often worry whether I’d know when to stop’ Ruth
RUTH:
Traditionally, gambling has been associated with men, horse-racing, football and the dogs. But increasingly, women are succumbing to harmful gambling habits. And the figures are frightening – up to one million of them. On GB News, Eamonn spoke to a lady called Lisa from Essex. She is 49 years of age and has been struggling with her gambling addiction for 16 years.
In her late 20s, she won a large amount of money playing poker, and proceeded to play at a high level. In addition to mounting significant financial challenges, Lisa’s gambling led to her struggling mentally, feeling lost, ashamed and very much alone in her experience.
Eventually, Lisa’s physical health started deteriorating as well, with the stress making her fearful that she may even experience a heart attack. Realising her habit was standing between her and her family, she decided to seek help and now attends meetings every week, where she is starting to see more women attend.
I often worry, could I be that woman? Would I know when to stop? I don’t think I am that woman – but we must all know our own predilections and weaknesses. And having someone around us, to remind us, flagging things up, can be a great help. For many, gambling can be an escape from reality and other problems in life.
Three warning signs to look out for in someone who may be starting to experience harmful gambling habits are: losing track of time because you can lose perspective on your losses; spending more than you can afford; and keeping your gambling a secret from those around you. So it’s good to be aware.
If you are concerned about your gambling, or that of a loved one, visit begambleaware.org for confidential advice and support, or The National Gambling Helpline on 0808 8020 133.