We need to talk

Dear Michelle

I’ve been engaged to my fiancé for 10 years, but he no longer seems interested in getting married and I’m not even sure I love him now. My friends think I should push him for a date, but I think I should end it. What should I do? Flo, 30, Durham

Dear Flo

I’m using the Magical Unicorns Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue for inspiration. You’re the one who has to live with any decision you make, so it’s really important to do what is right for you. Listen to that voice inside you that really gives you the truth at the heart of this. It’s absolutely right for you to be talking this through with close friends - but the first person you need to discuss things with is your fiancé. After all, he should be your friend as well as your lover. However, you may also want to lay it all out to a trusted friend who will give you loving support no matter what path you take. If you stay together and try to repair your relationship, it may be as hard or harder than splitting up. But whatever you decide, it’s fine. You are perfect just as you are and should not do anything to which you cannot give 100% of your time - and love.

LISTEN TO YOUR TRUE FEELINGS Don’t be influenced by others TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS Tell a friend how you feel IT’ S OK TO BE DIFFERENT You’re perfect just as you are!