Death becomes them

Dear Roi

From my school days onwards, whenever I’ve taken a dislike to someone, I’ve always dreamed that they died! In these dreams, I always feel guilt and regret and wished I’d tried harder to make friends and get on with them. The dreams are very vivid, and when I wake up, I’m overjoyed that it was just a dream. After that, I like the person or feel more neutral towards them instead. Petra Dudakova, 38, London

Dear Petra

Yoursubconsciousisteaching youafewthingswiththese dreams.consciously,youmay welltakeadisliketosome people,whichisunderstandable, ofcourse-wecan’t100%like everyonewemeetinlife!but yoursubconsciousknowsthat really,truly,youarebetteroff neverhatingsomeone.lifeis betterifwecanfindwaysof copingwiththosearounduswith whomwejustdon’tclickwithfor whateverreason.