QAunty Nelly, I’m a mug. I found my partner sexting twice before, and forgave him. Now I’ve caught him at it again!
We’ve bought a house, and have two kids together. He’s turned it round on me, says I don’t pay him attention and that I shouldn’t have invaded his privacy. I feel lost – and I’ve got my kids to think of... Claire, 39
AHow many more chances does this man need for you to realise that he has no respect for you? Even just pics and messages mean that he’s cheating. You aren’t happy, so the kids aren’t going to be happy, either. Move away, perhaps stay with family or friends while you get set up and then discuss his access like adults. Good luck, petal.