How to find my mojo?
QI’ve been with my high-school sweetheart since I was 17. We’ve always had a great sex life, but I’m so self conscious when I take off my clothes that I lose my ‘mojo’.
I’m afraid to be the first to make a move – but I know that he wants me to take control. I don’t know how to start anything when it comes to the bedroom. How do I fix my insecurities? Michelle, 26
AYou’ve no confidence, because you don’t love yourself. Your partner obviously doesn’t see any problems with your looks, so try to stop worrying!
Feel good about one thing about yourself – your eyes, or your smile. Why not light candles and play some mood music? Take it slowly. You don’t have to be a sex bomb overnight! Set the scene and you’ll both get in the mood.