Bored of faking it

Q I’ve been faking my orgasms. My girlfriend and I love each other, but while she orgasms quickly, I barely get a tingle.

It gets boring, so I groan ‘Oh, yes’, leap into the shower and pleasure myself.

What should I do?! Simon, 27 A Sounds like you need lots of foreplay. Penetrative sex is not always the ‘be all’! Your girlfriend will feel disappointed thinking she can’t satisfy you, so try to get really excited before you dive in.

Oh, and pop for a checkup with your doc, just in case.