No respect

Q My friends say my boyfriend no longer respects me because I give him too many chances.

In the four years we’ve been together, I’ve forgiven an affair and many financial let-downs. I’ve allowed him to speak to me like dirt, although he’s never hit me.

Recently he upset me by not showing up on my birthday and going out with his friends on my credit card... Olivia, 32 A The fact he’s not hit you does not make him Romeo! He’s mentally abusing you. You need to close the bank of Olivia! Believe me, honey, when you take away your credit card, you won’t see this guy again. That’s the only reason he’s hanging around.

This is a toxic relationship. Get him out that door and change the locks!