Come Boxing Day I’ll be living the life of luxury with another woman’s hubby
Most people spend the Christmas period with their families, but I think it’s a romantic time of year, too. The music, the lights, the magic. I’ll see my family on Christmas Day, like most people, but for the rest of the holidays I’ll also be enjoying my own festive romances. Only, the men I date are already married. That may sound shocking, but hear me out... It all started in March this year, while I was away on holiday in Lanzarote with a friend. Relaxing by the pool with a magazine, I came across an article about dating sites for married people. Illicit Encounters is aimed at married or attached men and women looking for romance outside of their relationship. Or, to put it bluntly, it’s a site for cheaters.
Only, I was single, and frankly I’d grown bored with regular dating.
I reckoned all the good men must already be taken, so...
‘I might give it a go,’ I told my friend.
A pretty openminded and adventurous person, I had always prided myself on walking through new doors if they interested me.
And despite the site giving people the chance to cheat, I felt there was a real honesty about it.
Unlike other dating sites, at least with Illicit Encounters you knew exactly what you were getting into.
So I set up a profile, choosing a picture of me looking sexy dressed in gym gear, showing a bit of cleavage.
The messages from married men came flooding in.
What a thrill!
Replying to a few, I was intrigued to learn a little more about their reasons for being on the site.
Most of them had wives who turned a blind eye to their extra-marital activities. Some even had permission! Others had other halves who had gone off sex after having
kids or were having affairs of their own.
After a few days, I got talking to a middle-aged bloke who told me that he’d been an early investor in a very successful company and made a fortune.
I wasn’t attracted to him for his money.
He was good-looking, charming and funny, so I agreed to meet him for a date.
Dressed in a black, V-neck dress that went down to my knees and spraying on perfume, I’ll admit I did feel a small pang of guilt.
I was about to go on a date with another woman’s hubby!
But he’d assured me that his wife knew he played away, so I decided to just enjoy myself.
Meeting at a fancy restaurant, my date lavished me with a lobster dinner followed by a glass of champagne back at his five-star hotel bar.
After which… ‘Would you like to stay the night?’ he asked
me with a sexy smile. You bet! We had an amazing night. So when he asked me if I’d like to go to America with him on business for four days, I jumped at the chance.
We flew to California, and while he went off to work meetings I’d go out sightseeing and shopping.
Then, once his working day was over, it was more champagne and posh restaurants.
Then back to the bedroom.
Our chemistry was good, the sex so exciting.
My experience was such a rush that I went out with other men I’d been chatting to on Illicit Encounters, as well.
As none of these men were looking for a commitment from me, I saw nothing wrong in seeing a few different people at one time.
It might sound harsh, but I didn’t carry any guilt towards my dates’ families, either.
They were good men, who made sure their children were properly taken care of. And I’m a good person, too. I never forced any of these men to sign up, and if they weren’t seeing me, they’d be seeing somebody else.
My responsibility is to myself, and right now, I’m having the time of my life.
And the men I see want to look after me, buy me gifts, and take me away with them on their business trips.
As a mistress, I’ve been taken to New York, San Francisco, Paris and Frankfurt.
Lavish restaurants, luxurious hotels... the high life!
And I’ve been given necklaces, bracelets...and even a Cartier watch!
‘That’s beautiful,’ my friends cooed when I showed them. ‘Who am I to refuse?’ I laughed. For me, Christmas is a magical time of year.
While I love spending time with my family on Christmas Day, I’m also looking forward to having illicit fun when all that’s over.
I’ve already been asked by several dates if I’m free on Boxing Day.
And if these blokes want to whisk me out for a nice meal while their wives are at home making turkey sandwiches, who am I to argue?
Even though I may be showered with gifts, my dates still do the same with their wives, and make sure that their children want for nothing.
As odd as it may sound, this way round, everybody ends up happy.
I’ve now met around 20 married men through Illicit Encounters.
Who knows what will happen in the future, but I’m certainly not looking to settle down right now.
Being a mistress, I get the gifts, the holidays, the sex and the fun – without picking up anyone’s smelly socks...
What more could I ask?
I don’t carry any guilt towards the families
Plenty of fellas seem to like the look of me