Ask Aunty Nelly
QI’ve somehow become my best friend’s alibi. She’s seeing a married man behind her boyfriend’s back. They use my flat and she has a spare key.
Every time they’re round, they grope each other in front of me. Recently, he asked if I’d join in! I stormed out in a huff, but she just giggled.
I don’t want him round here again. I asked for my key back, but she’s begged my forgiveness.
Who does this cheating rat think he is?! Leanne, 30
AWe have a problem. You only think he’s cheating. They both are. And you let them use your flat and condoned the behaviour.
Demand your key back. Tell them to do as they like but not to involve you at all.
She’s immature and disrespectful. If she decides your friendship isn’t worth maintaining, it’s her loss not yours. I suspect she won’t let you go, though – you know too much!