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QMy girl­friend talks dirty dur­ing sex, es­pe­cially af­ter she’s had a drink. She talks about fa­mous men, male col­leagues and ex-part­ners.

I used to like it, but now I’ve fallen in love with her. I’ve told her to stop and that it’s no longer a turn-on, but she says she can’t help her­self. We haven’t had sex for a few weeks and I’m wor­ried it’s over – am I not enough? Eric, 32 A Sex with a new part­ner can start out one way, but may change. There are cer­tain things we al­low a few times, while we’re get­ting used to each other. You’ve al­lowed dirty talk in bed about other men. Now you’ve de­vel­oped feel­ings for your girl, you don’t want to hear it.

Have you told her you love her? She may be putting off sex to avoid up­set­ting you. Be hon­est.

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