Is money his only mo­tive?

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QMy lover only seems in­ter­ested in my money! I’ve booked us a trip to Bar­ba­dos but I can’t ig­nore the truth…if I didn’t earn so much, he’d be long gone. I pay for all our nights out and help him out with any bills. I do this not be­cause I’m a fool, but be­cause I can, and I love him. But it’s all one-sided. Should I go on hols alone and risk los­ing him? Suzanne, 44 A Sorry,honey, you are a fool. It’s fine to help your part­ner out with money, but any re­la­tion­ship should be about give and take. If you felt com­fort­able about this sit­u­a­tion with your man, you wouldn’t be writ­ing to me.

We don’t give to re­ceive, but it seems he’s do­ing all the tak­ing. You can’t keep fund­ing him – you’ll end up with no money in the bank or no love in your heart for him.

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