Out with the old?

QI’m currently in a relationship, but things aren’t going great. My partner spends all his time in the pub or at the bookies.

Now, I’ve found I’m attracted to someone who makes me feel good about myself... Should I tell the new man how I feel, or try to sort things out with my fella? Betty, 49 A What a pickle. Your current partner isn’t giving you the attention you need and I can understand why you’re considering someone who is. But first, sort out what’s going on at home.

Tell your fella that you’re not happy, and that your eyes are wandering. Give him an ultimatum. Don’t do anything with this other bloke unless you’re absolutely single.