Blows hot and cold
QI’ve been seeing a new man recently. He’s 35 and has never been in a serious relationship. The chemistry’s definitely there but he blows hot and cold.
When we’re together, he says he wants to see me all the time, then I won’t hear from him for days.
When I told him
I love him, he said he hasn’t got time for a relationship.
Should I keep seeing him or let him go? Louise, 43
AYou’ve caught feelings for a man who’s using you. He’s not trustworthy – you need someone to be there for you.
Walk away. Find someone who’ll give you commitment. Good luck!