Bringing sexy back

QI’m a mum of two and don’t feel sexy in the slightest. I’ve gained a bit of weight and have stretchmarks.

My hubby thinks I look beautiful, but we don’t have sex as I feel rubbish about myself.

I don’t really have time to go to the gym, and chocolate cake is my best mate. Help!! Jules, 26

AWe’ve all been there, where chocolate is our best friend – but it’s not the answer.

Because you feel your kids are taking over your life, you’ve lost your identity.

Do something for yourself – go out for coffee or to the hairdresser’s, find yourself again. Then have a date night with your partner.

Once you start to feel more like yourself, your sexy feelings will slowly come back.