Three in a bed
My husband and I have a happy and loving relationship – but lately, we’ve been talking about bringing other people into our sex life.
It’s something we’re both open to – but I do worry that, once that line has been crossed, there’s no going back and it might change our marriage. Any advice? Debs, 31
It will definitely change your marriage – for the better or not, I don’t know. When you bring a third person into the bedroom, there has to be 100 per cent trust. It’s not like watching porn or talking about a sexual fantasy. This is a real person you’re introducing, in the most intimate way. Will you feel jealous if the woman has nicer boobs than you, is slimmer, younger..?
You clearly already have concerns, so my advice is, don’t do it. Put on some porn instead.