Should I warn off new girl?


QMy ex has started see­ing a new girl and I’m very glad to be shot of him! The things is, I know he’s go­ing to ruin her life, like he ru­ined mine.

He drinks ev­ery day, takes drugs – and, while he’ll be nice at first, he’ll soon show his true colours. But, by then, she’ll be trapped. It took me 10 long years to get rid of him, so it’s my duty to warn her, right..? Kelly, 36

ANo, it’s not. Stay in your lane! He used to drink, he took drugs, he wasn’t a nice boyfriend – to you.

But this is a new re­la­tion­ship that he’s in, with a dif­fer­ent per­son – let them get on with it. Why do you feel the need to fol­low your ex around and warn his girl­friend? Let it go.

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