Silence in the sheets
QI’ve been with my partner seven years and we have three kids between us. She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
But while our sex life is amazing, she’s always very quiet and I’m not always sure if she’s fully satisfied.
I’ve tried asking her and she says she is. But I need more reassurance. What can I do? Steve, 36
AI actually don’t think this is about you needing affirmation in the bedroom, but in your relationship – I mean, we’ve all heard about the seven-year itch...
I also don’t think you need to be asking if she’s had an orgasm simply because she didn’t make any noise!
Have a sit-down chat, ask her is she’s happy and fulfilled. And when she says ‘yes’, believe her!