Missing my stepdaughters
QI divorced my husband three years ago after he had an affair. He has two daughters, in their
30s, from his previous marriage.
I helped raise them and treated them as my own.
I loved them very much and still do.
But they want nothing to do with me since the divorce. They blame me, although he was the one who cheated.
I still send cards and presents, but they never reply. Should I reach out again, or just get the message? Elaine, 56
A Oh You pet, have this is motherly so, so sad. instincts towards these ladies, so it must’ve hurt you. Keep sending cards, but if you don’t hear back, leave it at that. If they don’t want to reply, you can’t force it or beg them to have a relationship with you.