In love with a married man

QI’ve been having an affair with a married man for years. I’m completely in love with him and he says he is with me, too.

But he won’t leave his wife. It hurts me thinking he doesn’t care about me as much as her.

I’m tired of being the other woman but how do I move on from this situation when I care about him so much?

Zara, 34

AI’m telling you what you already know here, but maybe you need to hear someone else say it.

He will never leave his wife. I repeat, he will never leave his wife. At the moment, this man is being allowed to pick you up and drop you as he fancies.

And he says he loves you? Pull the other one.

It’s time to end this so-called relationship now. Find someone who will make you a priority.