I can see everything!
Q
How do I tell my 24-year-old stepdaughter to wear underwear around the house? It makes me so uncomfortable.
She sits on the sofa with just a dressing gown on, and as she moves, I can see the lot!
Her mum asks her to cover up, but she just rolls her eyes as if to say, ‘Here she goes again.’
I don’t know how to deal with this. It’s so awkward. Tony, 51
A
Hang on. Am I right in thinking that this young lady lives with you and her mum?
If so, I think you’ve every right to ask her to wear undies in the communal areas of your own home!
That said, I wouldn’t do it directly. If it’s awkward now, imagine that chat.
I’d ask your wife to have a proper conversation with her, tell her how uncomfortable her clothing choices are making you both and insist that she covers up.
Maybe you can buy her some pyjamas?