‘We had sex with another couple – on our honeymoon!’
Terri and Lee Blackley have slept with 25 strangers during their three-year relationship – and they claim that swinging has made their marriage stronger F
or most newlyweds, a honeymoon is a chance to spend some quality time alone. But, during theirs, Terri Blackley and her husband Lee were happy to climb into bed with another couple.
The swingers have slept with 25 strangers since getting together three years ago – and insist it’s the key to a perfect relationship.
Terri, who records a relationship podcast called Mrs Blackley, lives in Suffolk with factory worker Lee and their five children from previous relationships.
She says, “We used to think that swingers were old people having orgies. But there are a lot of young people who are swingers, too.
“Having sex with strangers makes our relationship so much stronger, as it makes us appreciate each other more.”
Terri, 27, and Lee, 31, enjoy the scene so much, they even went swinging on their honeymoon in Majorca in June last year, after getting married in front of 80 of their closest family and friends.
“It was the last night of our honeymoon, so we decided to have a bit of fun – it felt like a blessing on our marriage.
“We met the couple at their hotel and chatted for about four hours before having sex. It was the perfect evening.”
Terri and Lee met through mutual friends and had been together for six months when they first tried swinging.
Terri says, “Lee knew that I’d previously had lesbian relationships and was intrigued by it, so I suggested a threesome with a woman. We were nervous about how it would affect our relationship, but after a long chat we started looking at online swinging sites. We weren’t interested in paying for an escort, we wanted to find someone who genuinely fancied us.
“We eventually found an attractive lady who was blonde, slim and in her late 40s. Lee said he loved sex with older women because they’re more experienced, and I was keen to experiment.”
They chatted with the woman for six weeks before arranging to meet her.
Terri explains, “We chose a weekend when the kids were away with our ex-partners, and Lee and I agreed that we’d always