Linda Nolan’s column
I read recently that dating apps have been linked to body image issues – and this doesn’t surprise me. I’ve been giving dating apps a go – I lost my husband to cancer in 2007, and have myself been diagnosed with terminal cancer after my breast cancer returned last year, but I’d love to meet a man with whom I could build a romantic connection, or even a great friendship. So, earlier this year, I sat down with my pals and set up a dating app profile – but I haven’t been on any dates yet. It’s hard for me to know if men want to meet showbiz Linda Nolan, or the real me, Linda Hudson.
I do believe that first appearances are important, initially – you want to find them attractive. But that can’t be the main focus – too many people are too worried about how they look these days, and it’s what’s on the inside that counts! If I swiped right on a handsome guy and met up with him, and he was an idiot or there was no conversation, that would be an instant turn-off. It’s all about the connection for me, and that’s what relationships come down to in the end, anyway. Older people tend to think meeting someone should be face-to-face, but I know lots of people who have found love on dating apps, so I wouldn’t rule it out. You just shouldn't focus solely on looks while using them, because other things are more important.