Dress for the cruise you want

QI always enjoy your column, but found the writer of the problem ‘Cruising through life’ (January 12) to be particularly galling in not owning or wishing to wear a suit (or, more appropriately, an evening jacket) aboard Cunard for Gala Evenings. I am a regular passenger of Cunard, spanning decades and usually going two or three times a year (pre-covid). It’s because of the beautiful ships, history, style, elegance and traditional values (such as dressing for dinner) that we relish the journey as much as the destination. Dressing appropriately and smartly every evening is enjoyable and makes the cruise a special event. It also shows respect for the passengers and excellent crew. Even on a Gala Evening, there are, of course, areas where smart-casual attire is perfectly fine—but, for those who revel in their non-conformity, there are many other cruise lines with relaxed dress codes where the writer would feel quite at home. I would suggest selecting one of these, which matches their casual, non-suit lifestyle, rather than expecting their choices to be tolerated by those who look forward to a dose of old English charm among other like-minded passengers. I hope my little rant adds some clarity—as in life, there are always options.

G. M., Hampshire

AIt doesn’t appear that my participation is required here, but at least we have established who should cover the column next time I fancy going on a casual cruise.

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