Truth behind Sinead’s heartrending and very public breakdown
THE eyes are familiar. Big, haunting, filled with raw emotion and brimming with tears. So is the distinctive hair — an aggressive buzz cut she shaved in a fit of rebellion in her 20s and which became part of her persona for the next 30 years. Other than that, Sinead O’Connor is almost unrecognisable.
These are pictures of a woman in the grip of mental illness. Heavily tattooed, her shaved hair now visibly grey, she appeared a broken woman when she filmed a video in a cheap room in a New Jersey Travelodge this week.
‘ I’m fighting, fighting, fighting, fighting,’ she sobbed, ‘ like all the millions and millions that I know I’m one of — to stay alive every day.’
Barely able to speak at times, she left countless fans who viewed the 12-minute clip in no doubt about the reasons behind her public outpouring.
‘I want everyone to know what it’s like, that’s why I’m making this video. Mental illness, it’s like drugs, it doesn’t give a s*** who you are, and, equally, what’s worse, it’s the stigma. It doesn’t give a s*** who you are.’
Perhaps the cruellest aspect of the illness that has dogged Sinead O’Connor in recent years is the loneliness she feels in a world which once feted her as brilliant and beautiful.
Having been catapulted to global stardom in 1990 by her heartrending performance of the ballad Nothing Compares 2 U, the 50-year- old singer has been reduced to feeling ‘invisible’.
On Facebook this week, highly distressed, she railed about suicidal thoughts and her belief she has been forsaken by those who should love her.
This is not her first public cry for help. She posted a series of messages on Facebook from a Dublin hotel in 2015, saying: ‘Music is over for me. Music did this. It rendered me invisible. Murdered my soul.’ After claiming to have ‘taken an overdose’, she was later found safe by police and admitted to hospital.
‘I’m invisible. I don’t matter a shred to anyone,’ she said back then. ‘ No one has come near me. I’ve died a million times already with the pain of it.’
But the truth about O’Connor’s latest online outburst is, perhaps predictably, more complex than might first meet the eye. For it can be revealed that her breakdown comes against the backdrop of an extraordinarily bitter legal battle where she is being sued by a former lover — and long-term manager — for alleged defamation and breach of contract.
The action is being taken in Ireland by Fachtna O’Ceallaigh, 70, who met O’Connor in the Eighties when she was 17 and steered her to stardom in a partnership that lasted until 2012.
He claims O’Connor terminated their business relationship without warning and defamed him in a letter published on her website and a fan’s website. He is seeking damages of around ¤500,000 (£452,000).
O’Connor denies the claims but, according to her lawyer, who appeared at a pre-trial hearing at Dublin High Court ten days ago, ill health has delayed her ability to defend herself.
Speaking about their romantic relationship in previous interviews, she described them both as ‘driven people’: ‘You can see that from what we achieved together,’ she said. The couple broke up at the time of the release of Nothing Compares 2 U and the stunning close-ups of her crying in the video were attributed to her misery over the split.
In the past, O’Ceallaigh, who also managed U2 and Bob Geldof’s Boomtown Rats, has always been sympathetic to his muse.
‘The same thing that makes her great, that generates joy and fulfilment in her work, has also caused great pain and difficulty for her,’ he said.
‘It is incredibly painful to see her living her life the way she lives it sometimes.’
But the pair’s business split — which came, according to sources, via a ‘very colourful email from Sinead’ while on tour in Germany trying to reboot her career — changed things.
O’Connor’s bitter words leave little doubt about the toll mental illness has taken on her.
‘Suddenly all the people who are supposed to be loving you and taking care of you are treating you like s***. It’s a crime and it should not be acceptable to any man that knows me or claims to love me.’
Anyone who has followed the star’s turbulent life will know she’s prone to throwing wild accusations against those closest to her.
She’s spoken of ‘ horrifying betrayals’ from family members as well as ‘appalling cruelty’.
‘I’m a 5ft 4in f***ing woman wandering the world for two years by myself,’ she said this week. ‘Nobody in my f***ing life.’ A sad state of affairs for a woman who has been married four times and who has four children, Jake, 29, Roisin, 22, Shane, 13, and ten-year-old Yeshua.
The truth is that in recent years, O’Connor appears to have been at war with everyone around her, not just ex-lovers and relatives.
She was threatened with legal action by U.S. comedian Arsenio Hall after she wrongly accused him of supplying drugs to the late pop singer Prince and spiking her own drink years before.
She later apologised and Hall dropped his $5 million defamation law suit in February this year. At around the same time, she was forced to sell her seafront home in County Wicklow for ¤795,000 (£719,000) — a million less than she paid for
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