Are GP prescriptions for dance classes the way to overcome loneliness?

I AM appalled that the Government is straying into the silly realms of a do-gooding nanny state by suggesting that because I live alone, I must be lonely. It’s absurd that my doctor could prescribe some sort of forced company activity, such as dance classes. Of course some pensioners are lonely and may benefit from this, but the Government and doctors have no place in interfering with people’s rightful independence. We need a return to Tory values of freedom of action, personal responsibility and self-reliance. ANGUS FINEMORE,

Andover, Hants. THREE years ago, my life was perfect. Then I was suddenly widowed and my life changed dramatically. From having a good social life, holidays and a happy retirement, my married friends stopped asking me to go out, I had no one to go on holiday with or money to

finance trips. I could see no future and thought I had nothing to live for. I felt surplus to requirements. I was lonely and lost my confidence. Shopping, paying bills and answering the phone felt overwhelming. What has saved me has been the support of the Hospice at Home staff, who nursed my husband in his final illness. I was given one-to-one and group counselling, which has helped me to make new friends. From a coffee and a chat I have progressed to trips to the theatre. I am looking forward to carol concerts and Christmas meals out. I am a shy person, but I have found solace in helping other people. There are plenty of ways the old and young can interact by using their knowledge and skills to everyone’s advantage. We should all be prepared to make the effort to help each other.

Mrs J. WRIGHT, Shaw, Gtr Manchester. I AM a member of the Cotswold Male Voice Choir, where many of my fellow singers are widowers who live alone. They say they look forward to meeting ‘the lads’ every week and that learning music has given them a sense of purpose. It’s a win-win situation because we are doing something we love, while raising money for good

causes. We are working with the local NHS trust to explore the physical and mental benefits of singing.

STEVE ALLSUP, Cheltenham, Glos. LONELINESS can be a choice. Stop spending all day knitting and drinking tea, get off your backside and take responsibility for your life. I recently retired and spend my days at the gym, reading and walking up to four miles. If you want a conversation, you can volunteer, take a college course, get a part-time job, learn to play golf or use your bus pass to get out and about. You just have to get yourself organised.

R. L. ATKINS, Tamworth, Staffs.