THE LOVE LANGUAGE QUIZ...

yOU feel most secure in your relationship when…

A: You receive a loving message for no particular reason. B: You get the chance to hang out with your partner. C: Your partner gives you a small unexpected gift. D: Your partner helps you with a task. E: Your partner hugs you.

WhICh of the following makes you feel most loving towards your partner?

A: You hear supportive words from your partner. B: Your partner shows interest in the things you care about. C: Your partner gives you something that shows they’ve been thinking of you. D: Your partner runs an errand for you. E: Your partner puts their arm around you in public.

yOU feel happiest about your relationship when…

A: Your partner compliments you on your appearance. B: They take time to listen to you and understand your feelings. C: They bring a small gift back from their travels. D: Your partner takes the pressure off you by doing one of your chores. E: You’re more physically intimate than usual.

yOUR ideal partner would be especially good at…

A: Appreciating your strengths and regularly telling you so. B: Putting away their phone and asking you about your day. C: Knowing you well enough to choose the perfect gift. D: Seeing what needs to be done around the house and doing it without you asking them. E: Holding hands in public.

The thing you dislike the most about your marriage is…

A: Your partner rarely tells you how good you look.

B: They spend every other night at the gym/out cycling/on social media while you sit at home. C: They’re tight with money and never buy you anything! D: You always do the vacuuming, even when you’re tired. E: You rarely kiss any more. 6. The most important thing to you in a relationship is ... A: Being spoken to kindly and tenderly. B: Spending lots of time together doing fun things. C: Receiving regular, thoughtful symbols of love. D: Sharing chores equally.

E: Cuddling and holding each other.

If you answered mainly:

A: Words of affirmation. B: Quality time together. C: receiving gifts. D: Acts of service. E: Physical touch. The one that received the highest score is your love language. If two are equal you are bilingual. If another love language came close, both expressions of love are important to you.

A: Words of affirmation

For you, there is no more powerful expression of love than a verbal compliment or a