He’s Mr Charming but never pays. Should I trust him?

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TV’s sTeph and Dom parker, 51 and 54, draw on their 20 years of marriage to solve your relationship problems . . .

QI AM dating a charming man I met at the golf club. To be honest I was amazed he was single — he’s a real silver fox. We’ve had lovely weekends away in the country staying with his friends, and a wealthy friend hosted supper for my date’s 60th birthday.

But I can’t help noticing he never pays for anything himself. He doesn’t have a property of

his own (he’s currently house sitting for a friend), and whenever he’s asked for his address, he gives the name of the golf club, who hold his mail.

He has a job in hospitality, but seems to work only a couple of days a month. He seems to have almost no possessions, apart from expensive suits and handmade shoes.

Everyone loves him, but I notice I’m paying for most of the drinks, dinners and taxis. I feel taken for granted. Should I stop being so judgmental?