Learn to control your dreams – and make them reality

Want to lose weight or boost your career? As this dream expert reveals, you can learn to guide your mind while you sleep ... and turn your fantasies into reality

YOU’Re in free flight, gliding high above a patchwork of fields with the wind in your hair. Or what about swimming deep beneath the ocean without need of air?

Perhaps your wildest dreams include something entirely different: a dalliance with a film star, or skiing down a black run — when in reality you never made it off the nursery slopes.

And you can experience all this and more — at will, while fast asleep in bed.

‘Lucid dreaming’ is the art of shaping or controlling your dreams by practising the latest brain training techniques. You can wake up in the morning, refreshed, after spending the night perfecting your tennis serve or settling your differences with a long-deceased relative.

All sounding a bit wacky? Actually, it’s backed by neuroscience, and is catching on fast. According to its growing band of exponents, lucid dreaming has the power to not only improve health — both mental and physical — but also help us process past trauma, overcome phobias and addictive behaviours and even improve life skills.

Lucid dreaming expert and teacher Charlie Morley explains: ‘A lucid dream is one in which you think, “Aha, i’m dreaming!” while you’re still asleep.

‘You’re out for the count but part of your brain has reactivated (the right dorsolateral prefrontal cortex, to be precise)

allowing you to experience the dream state consciously.

‘once you become conscious within a dream, you can direct it. You can fly, teleport, communicate telepathically with dream characters and guide the narrative.

‘not only that, but you gain access to the most powerful virtual reality generator in existence: the human mind. so it all feels as real as waking reality — if not more so.’

There are obvious benefits. You are no longer limited to the constraints of your body. People in wheelchairs can run and walk again — and feel as invigorated as they would if they had done it physically.

‘My eyesight was once quite poor in real life and yet perfect in the lucid dream,’ says Charlie. ‘This is because I wasn’t seeing through my eyes, I was seeing through my mind.’

For any sceptics out there, lucid dreaming has been a scientifically verified phenomenon for more than 40 years. In 2012, researchers at the Max Planck Institute of Psychiatry, in Munich, carried out MRI scans on people while they slept.

When they were simply dreaming, the brain stem and occipital lobe, in the rear of the brain, became active; but when they were lucid dreaming, the areas in the prefrontal cortex — the part of the brain concerned with conscious thought — also lit up.

As lucid dream researcher Dr Clare Johnson says: ‘ In lucid dreams it’s easy to shrug off your inner critic as you’re in the wild, original world of the unconscious, where the critical self has much less of a voice.’

Incredibly, some claim you can even use lucid dreaming to hone a physical skill. A small study in 1981 found that volunteers who practised their skiing or gymnastics skills in their sleep vastly improved in real life.

More recently, researchers at Heidelberg University, in Germany, agreed that lucid dreaming has ‘ a great potential for athletes to use as a training method’ as it ‘ mimics a perfect simulation of the world’.

This is because our neurological system doesn’t differentiate between our waking experiences and our lucid dream experiences, which means that, for our brain, dreaming lucidly about doing something isn’t like imagining it — it’s like actually doing it.

‘The implications of this are huge — we can change our lives while we sleep,’ says Charlie.

HOW DO YOU DO IT?

IT SOUNDS wonderful in theory, but most of us fall into a pit of oblivion every night, and the thought of actually ‘working’ in the land of nod is daunting.

‘There are many ways to access lucid dreams — some do so spontaneously,’ says Charlie. ‘But if you’re keen to try, start a dream diary. The more conscious you are of your dreams, the easier it will be to become conscious within your dreams.

‘Keep a notebook and pencil by your bedside and spend five or ten minutes making notes when you wake every morning. Focus on the main themes and feelings, the general narrative and any strange dream anomalies you can recall.

‘To help you remember, while you’re falling asleep recite over and over in your mind: “Tonight, I remember my dreams … I have excellent recall.”

What you’re trying to do is become familiar with “dream signs” — any improbable, impossible or bizarre aspect of a dream that indicates we’re dreaming, such as talking dogs or seeing dead relatives; even things as subtle as being back at school.

‘By acknowledging our particular dream signs we create a “lucidity trigger” that will be activated the next time we see that sign.’

some people try machines or supplements to trigger lucid dreams, such as eye masks that beep or light up when you’re in REM to remind you that you’re dreaming. They can be helpful for some but not for others. They’re like stabilisers on a bike: best removed once you have learnt how to do it!

WAKE UP EARLY

THIs technique can boost your chances of having a lucid dream by a whopping 2,000 per cent, says Charlie.

Wake up at least two hours earlier than normal, stay awake for about an hour and then go back to sleep for another hour or two, with the strong intention to gain lucidity.

The last two hours of our sleep cycle are when we do most of our dreaming, so if we starve ourselves of this dream time, when we go back to sleep we eventually head smoothly and deeply into vivid dreaming.

The average adult passes through four to five cycles of what is known as Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep during the night.

This is when dreams most commonly occur, because particular neurons, called REM-on cells, become highly active.

SPOT THE SWIRLS

THOSE swirls of colour that form behind your eyelids as you slip off to sleep come in a transitional state between wakefulness and sleep called hypnagogia. As you drop off, some advise trying to shape them into more interesting patterns.

It can help if you mentally say things such as ‘I’m going to see a square now’, and then actively look for it.

GIVE AUDIO A GO

SOME people swear by what is known as ‘brainwave entrainment’ to help them dream lucidly.

This involves listening to special audio tracks while you’re dozing off. some people find these really help them to enter the deep meditative state that is perfect for lucid dreaming. simply searching for these

online brings up thousands of results.

WON’T I GET TIRED?

This is a concern of many sleepdeprived parents. But the answer is no. such is the buzz of lucid dreaming that you will often feel a sense of joy and achievement when you awake. You might even feel more refreshed than usual.

Every stage of sleep has a purpose. Non-REM and deep sleep stages, which make up the majority of our sleep, are needed primarily to rest the body and ‘clean the brain’. The REM dreaming stages — when lucid dreaming tends to occur — are needed to consolidate our memory and integrate our psychological processes.

DON’T BE TOO BLUE

ENgagiNg in sexual fantasies while lucid dreaming is common — after all, it’s so realistic. You needn’t be ashamed, says Charlie.

in fact he confesses that, after learning about lucid dreaming, most nights during his teenage years were spent discovering the joys of sex and skateboarding!

But he adds: ‘i always caution people not to get too into this aspect. after all, there are far more rewarding benefits.’

PIG OUT . . . ON A DIET!

DREaM researcher Jayne gackenbach says one of the subjects she has studied used lucid dreaming to lose weight. The woman would refrain from eating fatty foods during the day because she knew she could eat them in her dream.

That’s not as odd as it sounds. it could be that eating food in a lucid dream is so realistic that the brain sends satiation signals to the gut, saying, ‘i’m full’. hypnotic gastric band, eat your heart out.