I put on my good underwear ... then wondered why
DATING PAST?
I’ve had a few relationships, but nothing long-term. for the past two years I haven’t dated as much as I’ve been too busy with work, but I’m now looking for a partner.
PRE-DATE NERVES?
I was a bit nervous because we were not meeting in person.
It’s important to make an effort from a psychological point of view, so I wore a nice black top and jeans, but I did keep my slippers on. as I was getting dressed up I put on my good underwear, then wondered why!
I had food and a glass of wine ready. I even lit candles for the table, which he thought was funny.
FIRST IMPRESSIONS?
I ThoughT he was very attractive, with the loveliest smile. he had a nice shirt on and looked friendly and relaxed, which put me at ease.
EASY TO TALK TO?
Corrado doesn’t do small talk, which I like. we chatted about everything from Covid-19 conspiracy theories to our lives. he’s clearly an intelligent and interesting person.
at first I felt I was asking more questions and I wondered if he wasn’t interested in me, but he was keen to hear about my work as an author. I’ve had four romantic comedies published, and when I told him my debut was about dating he told me he was going to read it.
EMBARRASSING MOMENTS?
I dId find it strange not being able to see all of him. at one point I asked him for a close-up of his eyes and he obliged. It was hard to read body language and judge the chemistry.
I was holding my phone and he considerately suggested I put it on the table at one point so I could eat — he had a nice view of my ceiling!
DID SPARKS FLY?
IT’s so hard to flirt virtually, but we talked for more than two hours and were still going strong when the connection broke up. we tried to reconnect, then texted for a while.
WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET HIM IN PERSON?
we agreed to meet up after the lockdown. we had none of the stress over whether to kiss. I think all first dates should be virtual.
WHAT DO YOU THINK HE THOUGHT OF YOU?
I ThInk he found me interesting and respected that I’m creative.
WOULD YOU LIKE TO TAKE HIM HOME TO YOUR FAMILY?
I wouLd introduce him to my friends and my mum would like him. he’s genuine, and it was lovely when he said he missed his students. I’ve found the isolation hard as I live alone, so this was uplifting.