Daily Mirror (Northern Ireland)
LOVER WANTS OPEN RELATIONSHIP
Dear Coleen,
My girlfriend and I have been together for nine months and I moved into her place during lockdown. She’s amazing fun and I love everything about her. She’s also a bit younger – she’s 27 and I’m 32 and I think that might be a bit of an issue as far as our future goes.
I know it’s not a big age gap, but her outlook is different to mine. The other night she suggested that after lockdown we tried an open relationship, but with boundaries, so we both know what the other is up to and nothing is hidden. Full disclosure!
Maybe I’m old and boring, but I’m just not into this and feel quite hurt she’s suggested it. I’m at the point where I’m looking for a potential life partner, not sleeping around for kicks. Any advice?
Coleen says