WORRIED I’VE MESSED IT UP WITH ‘THE ONE’

Dear Coleen

I met this girl in a club and we hit it off immediately. We had good chemistry and exchanged numbers. She messaged me the same night, but I didn’t have credit on my phone, so I waited two days before reaching out to her.

I’m getting the feeling that I may have ruined my chances with her. I feel like I should have replied sooner. She’s probably the best thing that’s happened to me in terms of hooking up with a girl.

What can I do to re-ignite things? I think she could even be The One.

She laughed at my goofy jokes and liked how weird I was, which doesn’t happen that often to me.

Help, please.

Coleen says

Hold your horses, Romeo. She may or may not be The One, but give yourself the chance to find out – text her again and ask her if she wants to meet up.

If you get no reply, then you know the answer – and next time make sure that you have some credit on your phone before you go out.

If she hasn’t replied yet, maybe she’s just playing it cool and thinking, “well he didn’t reply to me for two days”.

The ball is in your court. Why not just be honest and just tell her that you didn’t have credit on your phone?

She already thinks you’re goofy and weird – and she liked it.

Honesty is always the best policy. Good luck.