YOU SAY

The guy who’s found romance in his 40s after a lifetime of being single should ignore his miserable mates and go for it (Dear Coleen, November 1).

He probably used to make his friends feel better about themselves because they could rely on him to be worse off. Now they can’t and, in fact, they sound jealous. Don’t pass up this opportunity just to make your friends feel better. Enjoy it! Joe, via email