YOU SAY

I can identify with the woman who wrote to say her marriage has hit trouble since retirement (Dear Coleen, November 21).

A similar thing happened to me – my husband was happy pottering at home while I wanted to go out and experience new places and new things.

In the end, I got together with a group of female friends who felt the same, and now we go abroad once a year and meet regularly for day trips and walks. It’s been good for my marriage too as we’re both happy!

Susan Fellows, via email